Thank you Mario. That is my daughter and my whole entire life. It was good to read your posts from time to time - it gave me inspiration to never give up. My only question what if you don't feel the want - does it mean that it doesn't exists? And if it does and you don't feel it how than can you release it?
Thanks Mario. I've been doing all the things you suggested and it's really helped. Total night and day difference for the better. I appreciate you being a role model and putting yourself out here like you have. It's inspired me to do the same. Much Love, James
Great Mario....I will do that...Fortunally, I got both Larry and Hale version of the method..
The SM is backwards to conditioning: Be hothless vrs push and you will get....
Do nothing vrs try harder.....An entire life of conditioning the second way of functioning in this world.
Have a good weekend.
Hi Mario....I have been following all your suggestions and appreciate them very much..thanks for that.
What have been your experience with hypnosis to uncover things that hold ones from moving forward unconsciously?....
I know I got some very deep feelings that I have not been able to release specially feelings of lack of security..for instance, my father was lousy on giving all us approval.. I have been able to let go lots of it but still deep inside, I feel like i need it that kind of security..
I just wonder if asking on hypnostist would help and then release those wants, because they do not come to the surface easily...
What has been your experience as trained hypnotist?. A friend of mine and lousy smoker quit smokiing this way....
Mario, what a blessing. Getting rid of smoking, overeating, allergies with the RT/SM. Wonderful. Most people struggle all their life with these things and never gets rid of them.
You are right..Looking for approval of other people is a major draw back to getting ahead..Tony de Mello (Iluminated Jesuit Catholic Priest from India) used to said in one of his books "How you can explain what the ocean is to a frog that has been all his life in a little pond?"..I am very carefull now who I talk to to about this...it is not worthy trying to explain it to somebody who is not ready yet....Right, not caring what other people may think, what a Enpowerment to getting ahead with all this.
This blessing (the RT) came to me at a time when my system had been exposed to lots of stress (job, life, family etc) and what a blessing to find a way to make the pressure cocker empty ifself of lots of steam...
At the present I work in a IADB project that develops in a complex environment (a project from a Multilateral Development Bank to the Government), but in spite of many challenging issues, I am getting ahead with minor stress...Thanks God He gave the RT to handle many challenging situations..
I got the feeling that we are blessed. I mean being the first ones in whole countries with millions of people(Brazil much much more) and being the first ones to be introduced to this wonderful technique...
I think to be efffective as instructor one has to be abundant already....Dont you think so?..I was talking one time (wtihouth telling about specifics) to the head of our external auditing company(Deloitte), about how wonderful should have be to live "effortless life"....He is the kind of busy all the time and was telling in a joke-skepticall manner " let me know when you find the way", because from the botton of my heart I know that does not exist....
Unlike the States or Canada (places that I know for instance), people is not that distrusfull are we the Latin countries used to deal with all kinds of crooks..
So, the only way to be effective is being a living example...What is a living example?....being millionare?...you see what i mean?..or maybe i am prejudice about the skepticism of us the Latinos...I know Larry has been in Mexico.
The amazing thing for me was when I realized that things (maybe not big, but bottering ones or considered some time ago unbearable or bothering (like the relative I told you, the allways absent boss, dealing with a big ego workmate (Argentinian)..etc...It is not that i do not care but they do not botherme as before..Long ways to go still, but those small gains make your think " this is good stuff".
What you think will motivate people to believe that you have a superior quality of life to take as an instructor in this countries...Larry talks about his millions and unhappiness and then the bliss of abundance life..
Hale sounds more spiritual and talk less about material accomplishments..
In countries like Honduras, money talks..and many people think that the only way to get rich is being a crook or inheriting lots of money.
Mario. I got things much clearer than before thanks to your feedback.. You are right takes a while sometimes and i have been trying to see results too fast...Need to release on that too?.....release on the feeling that makes me think that i am not releasing maybe..
The Beatles got it right with their famous son, that had lots of wisdon: LET IT BE. We allways get int the way (unconscious I gues) and maybe thats why we think is difficult to pull out limiting stuff buried there.
Another issue is that I do not know anybody else here in the whole country that knows the SM or RT...I know lots of people but have not heard of anybody and according to Hale registers i am the only one in the whole country. How is in Brazil?. You know other people doing Releasing?.ç
This RT or SM sounds weird to most people..I even had resistance to Hale soothing voice...and let the tapes sitting there for while. (what is this stupid thing that I am doing?sore of an inner voice)
I would like to coach when i get good at it, and will go to the Sedona Retreat (hopefully my job obligations do not get in the way this coming September...
Then I will go to a Larry`s....and will get the ICAP afterwards.
The idea I have in mind is to get the certification of coaching on the SM in Spanish and then go to a Larry and see if I can come with a simpler version to teach here or anybody who speaks spanish and has not had the blessing of finding such a wonderful technique (most people i have met in my 20 plus years of professional experience think that the only way to live is with stress and ego driven) and that these teachings are for monks or anybody who is ready to live like a hermitage in the Himalayas...
You are right what a huge resistance on going to a Retreat (I find all kinds of excuses: money, time, is it worthy?, do not tell anybody, etc)...
I am working on your suggestions and will keep you posted.
Mario: I come to the conclusion that doing attachments and aversion is crucial for me....the problem is that nothing comes..for instance: last nite, i tried what is the advantage of having sleep apnea and nothing shows up.
What is disadvantage of not having more financial abundance?...nothing shows up....you see?.
Also, sometimes ones things that we are releasing and really we are not releasing of all...I had lots of resistance to having a boss that was only half of the time. Released and do not feel more resistance. was easy, but i do the same for other things and still are there.
I am also trying to release the expense of attending a 7 day retreat. Hale or Larry?.......have a hard time justifiying the US$2,500 involved in air ticket, room &board and tuition, even thought the money is there.....
Mario. Like your allergies went away (you are living proof), I have been suspecting the same of my sleep apnea..You got my point and I will start with your suggestions tonight. I spoke to a man that works with Larry Guido Walter?and he told me a similar story like us.
The problem with sleep apnea is that makes you feel tired in the morning and do not feel completelly rested (hence prone to accidents, making more errors, forgetting things etc...and definitelly more prone to negativity due to lack of sleep (loss of cognitive abilities) and when the nite is really bad a mild depressive mood next day is for sure... i like to be optimistic and raise other people as well but feeling tired every day.... becomes a vicious circle...so it is very important to break it..
I will say that in spite of anything i would not complain if in the morning I am rested, had made lots of improvements (a year ago used to wake up at 4am and no sleep any more)...now sleep 7 or even 8 hours but do not feel fully rested and fresh in the morning...is better than before but still a problem.
i suspect something unconscious is bugging me...?????????..I do not know a way to to pull it out (bring it to consciousness), because it really affects anybody quality of life.
Apreciate your input.
Understand Mario.. thanks for the great insights. I will take again another look at The Abundance Book excersises...I never felt too confortable with the Would you, could you, when..I prefer for some reason more direct approaches like the Releasing on the Wants..At the very beggining this Could, Would you, When aproach had so much internal resistance for me that i put the course off for a while and the SM had not more effect at the begginning than just stopping some unwanted thoughts. I had made progress since then, like releasing resistance to several things i thought were hard to swallow like a relative who is very difficult to deal with but is not conscious of her manipulative behavior.
I have sleep apnea and sleep every nite with a cpap machine to breath better, but i am pretty sure that a great percentage of my sleep apnea it is due to something unconscious that i have not been able to release.. i went to major stress/grief, 5 years ago with a traumatic illnes and death of my wife, and i am pretty sure that even thought i have tried to release it, i still wonder about being at a life crossroads at 48 and single parent again..i am working on releasing all my worries, questions, etc..have done lots of progress in relation to where i was before the SM but still need to release more.
I will work on your suggestions and will get back to you.
All the best in the meantime.
Mario: Could you recall what made you turn from "head/no releaser" to "down your neck" releaser?....What would you recommend to somebody who had the same difficulty like you did?....
Look forward to hear from you.
Thanks Mario. I will try your suggestions and get back to you...i understand you are in Brazil? What is your background?. I work in a Project here of the IADB to Modernize the Judiciary System and have some entepreneural pursuits where i am trying to apply the method. Work independently in other words and get going a small hydropower station....
For instance: getting my father approval was an impossible....i just what the heck with its approval but those feelings do not go an unconscious level...the ones hidden, how to make them pop up?..you understand what i mean?...