Through love.

We are trying to control the one who we love.

I suppose that´s why there is saying :"if you love me you do this and that". Also all those similar sayings.

It occurred to me today when releasing today and boy it was tense. I will continue to do releasing or acceptance over this all. But i am sure it will have some huge "garbage" cleaning effect. Cause well, if we look what we have heard or read or seen in our families and friends lives. It is all that damn " i don´t love or accept you anymore if you do this that and whatever else " :D

For me it is nor love.

This leads to another revelation :D

The divorce rate and ppl telling ohh we growed separate :D

Well , i do not believe it :D If You Love, You do not grow separate , you do not find another more fascinating partner just because you don´t love the person anymore ... You look something else cause you can´t accept that person whom you are with are not loving you the way how you think love is. You can´t control him/here anymore and thatś why you start hating and behave like .... ( your own wording ).

You  choose him/here as You, this higher being once when you were ready to be together longer than those short term relationships are.

Thereś no excuse to just tell that sry we are not meant to be together  :P

There are just my point of views. Cause as one we are all together, we as energy. And energy has ability to change and when you have thoughts as you have ( due the mental terror in where we live ). We sadly allow that mental things to affect us as the energy, the vibration we are. And no wonder we struggle and hate and be disappointed.

So i got now the root of all evil in my relationship issues digged up and work is on :D

And my goal is .....( sweet smile )